Holiday Update

It is December 21. Jane and I made it home for the bulk of last week, just in time to experience an epic Washington snow storm. I found myself oddly unprepared for the expressions of support from so many friends and family. But it was hugely important to me, and to Jane as well. Thanks to all of you, for all you have done. I certainly hope that, should the situation present itself, I will respond in kind. And I hope that the situation never does.
A cute story: while clearing up some loose ends at work, I called an attorney about some lingering invoices. ( I have been a little lax in such things recently.) He said he thought it better not to make a collection call at year end because I might be otherwise occupied, and wished me luck. From a professional viewpoint, it is sad that he will have to be unchained from the other ten thousand at the bottom of the sea.
We returned to CA last night. Would have preferred to stay home indefinitely, but this situation demands some closure. Glancing around, I see that there is no one else for the job.
I truly look forward to the time when none of this—chemo-therapy, BMT’s, gory details, and all—is to be found anywhere in our conversations around the table, at the bar, or on the playing field. It will happen. Maybe next Christmas.
Of historical significance, our oldest daughter, Molly, has become engaged since the last post. She and her fiancé, Julien Lamamy, met in grad school several years ago and have continued their relationship over some daunting distances. We are very happy for them. They make a wonderful couple and care for each other deeply. And speaking for both parents, we couldn’t ask for a better husband for Molly.
All three of our daughters, Molly, Shannon, and Joanna, are here for Christmas and New Years. When they aren’t visiting me in the hospital, they, and Jane, should have some good times together over the holidays. Never underestimate the impact on immediate family. Mine is doing a first-rate job of supporting the testy patient.
Today is the winter solstice. One of my favorite times because the days only lengthen from here. Tomorrow I begin the BMT, and will resume the challenge of finding the most humorous, edgy ironies in the events that others only find unpleasant.
Best to all.
12/21/09